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Why You Will Quit Your Job

This day and age, everyone needs WiFi, and a few Maslow steps after that, a new job every so often.

This day and age, everyone needs WiFi, and a few Maslow steps after that, a new job.

The updated Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs above is the gospel truth, but then that’s just me diverting from the topic even before I began it. Thank you weknowmemes. That was a good one.

The apt addition of Wifi aside, Maslow’s theory still holds water, and as explained by this article, is the reason why you and I will quit our jobs. Up or Out: Solving the IT Turnover Crisis published on The Daily WTF website provides a lengthy discussion on the reasons behind high employee turnover in the IT industry. The basic uncovered dogma however encompasses all fields, and comes back to the employee’s need for self-actualization.

After she has overcome the proby-status hazing, gotten past stirring coffee for the boss and has taken on real work to learn real things while enjoying good pay and benefits, the employee has also gone several steps up Maslow’s ladder.  She has food on the table, clothes in her closet, cosmetics on her bourdoir (a need, naturally), a secure home, connection with peers, and after a few years, proper recognition at work in the form of a promotion and a good hefty pay raise. She is the picture of a happy employee. But as she inches to the edge of the self-esteem step, she will be plagued with one haunting question: “what now?” Once her head hits the ceiling, she will be activating her Jobstreet account, and yes, she will quit.

This, the article posits, is human nature at work, and is something an employer should expect from his brightest employees. Never mind the mediocre ones. They will sulk and hate you and your workload behind your back but they will never leave you, because they are not qualified enough elsewhere. Prominent lawyer Paul Cravath accepted this and proposed what is now dubbed the Cravath System, to wit:

“Bring lots of new employees in, team them up with mentors, provide real work to do, and give them a choice: either get lots of great experience and get out, or work hard for a higher-up position.”

Makes good sense to me. For one, employers cannot promise to make each stellar employee partner. Surely there won’t be enough seats. Which thus implies that there will come a time in their employment relationship that even the best companies will not be able to offer what its best employees need. Thus it might as well be a mutually engaging relationship, with both the employer and employee making the best of their time together.

So, if you too are finding the itch to climb up the ladder, please, do scratch it. If what you are feeling is more than the occasional work slump, then it is contrary to the breakup cliche. Because boss, it is not just me. It is you too. And really, it’s not your fault.

Credits to image, article owners. Special credits to @kuyamarkeds for the heads up on the article, among other things (P.S. Follow his Twitter account to get updated UAAP tweets and random nerd musings).

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Mareng Winnie Speaks of Honor and Excellence

This video was taken at least 2 years ago, but its message is universal and never obsolete. It is the kind of video that you watch today and then you click and watch again, just to remind yourself of its lessons. And the lessons here are even more substantial in these times when it is raining cats, dogs and pork.

Prof Winnie Monsod, arguably one of the best professors and economists in the country, takes a habit of giving a speech at the last day of her Economics 100.1 class in UP Diliman. Thanks to cheap and accessible technology, a student was able to capture the moment and was gracious enough to share it. Pardon the irrevocable, unapologetic UPD pride if you do not share my alma mater. But I trust that the rest of her valuable message is deeply applicable to all.

To saving the Philippines. To honor and excellence.

Video credits to owner.

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Smile Like You Mean It

Brandon Flowers - Smile like you mean it

Even glamorous indie rock-and-roll stars get down in the dumps too.

A good friend linked me a recent article on Yahoo! SHE, probably spurred by another long text-versation I had with her about another cloudy day in the office. I guess she knew me well enough to understand that where consoling words, nagging, and/or level-headed advice won’t reach me, a good article would.

The full prose is available here. But I thought I’d write down this list of 5 supposedly “instant ways to get out of emotional spunk” together with my personal musings. Just to let the lessons sink in deeper. I’d like a chunk of chocolate now to help with my mood, but I don’t have any at the moment, and THAT IS OKAY. Continue Reading

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My Life According to Mr Flowers

Time to fulfill some promises, Mr Flowers.

Time to fulfill some promises, Mr Flowers.

Instructions: Using only song names from ONE ARTIST, cleverly answer these questions. You can’t use the artist/band I used. Try not to repeat a song title. It’s a lot harder than you think! Re-post as “My Life According to (artist/band name)”.

Are you a male or female?:
HEART OF A GIRL

Describe yourself:
HUMAN

How do you feel?:
THE RISING TIDE

Describe where you currently live:
THE WORLD WE LIVE IN

If you could go anywhere, where would you go:
FROM HERE ON OUT

Your favorite form of transportation:
JOY RIDE

Your best friend:
M(S) BRIGHTSIDE

You and your friends are:
SPACEMAN

What’s the weather like:
CHANGE YOUR MIND

Favorite time of day:
GOODNIGHT, TRAVEL WELL

If your life was a TV show, what would it be:
DEADLINES AND COMMITMENTS

What is life to you:
ALL THE THINGS THAT I’VE DONE

Your relationship:
FOR REASONS UNKNOWN

Your fear:
DON’T SHOOT ME SANTA

What is the best advice you have to give:
SMILE LIKE YOU MEAN IT

Thought for the day:
READ MY MIND

How you would like to die:
TRANQUILIZE

Your soul’s present condition:
GLAMOROUS INDIE ROCK & ROLL

Your motto:
EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT

Author’s note: Note repost from August 16, 2009, during a time when Facebook was all about quizzes and chain notes. Fun times. Reincarnated because picture below is finally happening. 

The Killers in Manila 2013

Heartbroken Filipino fans who had to return their tickets when the Killers’ 2012 Manila concert was cancelled would want to go to TicketNet Online now. Here’s your official invite:

See you all September 26, dancers.

Photos, video credits to owners.